All glory to God.
UPDATE, September 8, 2025...
UPDATE, September 9, 2025...
UPDATE, September 10, 2025...
One year ago (😊)...
Then (☹️)...
I knew what you were up to and we had fun.
I knew what your purpose was for being in Midland and knew you would be leaving soon.
I knew you wanted to keep things private and did my best to honor that desire.
There was no betrayal. You imagined that.
If you wanted to end things, you should have said so.
But you didn't.
Cutting off all communications (for a year) was very hurtful. It was cruel. Friends don't do that. They talk things out. Needing space and giving space is normal and fine.
"Ghosting" is unhealthy for all concerned. It is a horrible and destructive behavior that has become far, far too common in our culture. It is unacceptable.
I would like to be friends. Friends talk. Friends get to know each other. Friends care about each other and do things to build up their relationship.
You know how to get in touch with me and where to find me.
I dearly hope to hear from you soon.
😊
UPDATE, September 12, 2025...
I believe this was your goal and why you ran away:
The Root Cause of Unhappiness According to the Bhagavad Gita: How Desire Traps the Mind
Desiring me was diametrically opposed to your mission and you realized you had "sinned" by entertaining those desires. You had to get back on "the higher path."
I am not going to judge you. If you find happiness by meditating and seeking The Divine, that is your choice. I do not believe it will ultimately work, but you need to explore those things for yourself.
My mind is not trapped by my desire for you. Our mutual friend in the coffee shop says you have been very good for me. I am not angry, far from it. Through you I have become more enlightened and have learned a lot.
I would like to continue our friendship and talk about these things, like we did. I know more about it now and can more intelligently consider your perspectives. I think we are more aligned in our thinking than you may realize.
Please text me. I still have your ringtones on my phone and hearing your text notification sound would absolutely thrill and delight me. 😊
... And I still mean and stand by what I said.
UPDATE, September 13, 2025...
I recently acquired a new hat from a budding entrepreneur in the mall where the coffee shop is located. Uncharacteristically, I took a "selfie" photo wearing the hat and posted the photo as my profile picture on Facebook. That resulted in 20 "likes" and one "heart" (21 total), so friends and relatives seemed to enjoy it.This morning I realized that hat is a "social mask," which explains why I have not been comfortable wearing it.
It isn't me.
It is a prevarication.
What a lesson! As Carl Jung said...
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
The hat will probably end up in the closet and only be used on rare occasions.
Supporting the business of my entrepreneur friend was a delight, however.